…a hearer

See what turns a man’s head and know how he’s steering his heart.
What is Lovely, to you?

Lovely… a hearer. (Proverbs 20:5)

Most women use men as an ear, and rarely try to hear them.
Maybe that’s not true and just my experience talking.

If it is true, or sometimes true, I think I understand. We’re pretty lame at sharing – it probably often seems that we don’t have much we want to say.

Coconut is the language of men – all rough and hairy on the outside.

A wise woman has seen a few cracked, usually from falling;
she knows what’s inside.

So she listens gently with a hammer.

Lovely… a lover of the One who Loves.

(who’s this Lovely? you’d better start at the beginning…)

P.S. Some, and I think I know why, can’t allow cracks. 
“Real men don’t have sloshy hearts.”
I understand – I hope they find what they’re looking for…